
by Melissa George
The other night at dinner our oldest son, Ryan, inquired how other people would know that my husband and I were his mom and dad. I asked him to clarify, and he said he was wondering how people would know that I am his mom when he grows up and doesn't live with us anymore. I couldn't say people would know us because we look alike, because we don't. Ryan is Asian, my husband and I are Caucasian. I am Ryan's mom because we adopted him as an infant. We adopted all three of our children at birth, and they all look different than my husband and I. I assured Ryan that we would always be his parents, and he would always be a part of this family even if he didn't live here. I told him people will know we are family because of our love for each other.